Just married

[Chacmool]

Hi everyone, after a rather long absence, I am very happy to be back. I am also delighted to announce that I got married last week! :eek:

 

Some of you will know that I went through a rough patch towards the end of last year. Thank you so much to everyone who offered me advice and support. I have never been so happy in my life, and I now look forward to spending lots of time in the forums.

[freeztar]

Hi everyone, after a rather long absence, I am very happy to be back. I am also delighted to announce that I got married last week! :eek:

 

Some of you will know that I went through a rough patch towards the end of last year. Thank you so much to everyone who offered me advice and support. I have never been so happy in my life, and I now look forward to spending lots of time in the forums.

 

Congratulation Chacmool, I'm glad things have turned around for you. :(

 

Your excitement is contagious, I'm getting married in about 6 months myself.

 

 

Sooo....Tell us about the wedding...

[CraigD]

Congratulations, and welcome to the ranks of the married!

 

As you’ve likely gotten more than enough sage advice on all things matrimonial, I’ll spare you any of mine, other than to attest that my marriage of 22 years, with its many unextraordinary (and a few extraordinary :autumnleaves:) ups and downs, continues to be the greatest source of happiness I’ve ever experienced, and wish the same for you.

 

That, and beware cemetery plot salesmen! Along with a host of unnecessary insurance salesmen, they target newlyweds when you’re at you most extravagantly sentimental, like piranhas who read the announcement sections. If you do find yourselves cornered by this ilk, I recommend telling them, with a completely straight face, that you: a) are infallibly protected by the power of love; :eek: plan to live forever as uploaded consciousnesses; c) already have an ironclad legal contract to be incinerated together upon death, and your ashes launched into deep space. In my case, the straight face was easy, as my wife and I actually are planning on (:(. :)

 

Again, congratulations!

[Moontanman]

Congrats Chacmool, Freeztar is getting married in six months you just got married and I'll have been married for 32 years in six months. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world. I know that getting married was the best decision I ever made:)

[Buffy]

Welcome to matrimonial bliss! :)

 

Not that I'm a leading expert or anything, but I will say there are three things that are essential to a happy marriage: communication, communication, and lastly and most importantly, communication! :)

 

Intimacy is what makes a marriage, not a ceremony, not a piece of paper from the state, :phones:

Buffy

[Moontanman]

Welcome to matrimonial bliss! :)

 

Not that I'm a leading expert or anything, but I will say there are three things that are essential to a happy marriage: communication, communication, and lastly and most importantly, communication! :)

 

Intimacy is what makes a marriage, not a ceremony, not a piece of paper from the state, :phones:

Buffy

 

Yup, you hit the nail on the head, after almost 32 years it boils down to trust, talking to each other, and lots of intimacy:hyper:

[C1ay]

Congratulations! Glad you're back.

[Michaelangelica]

Hi everyone, after a rather long absence, I am very happy to be back. I am also delighted to announce that I got married last week! :)

Congradualtions

There are worse ways of spending one's life.:)

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and I now look forward to spending lots of time in the forums.

1. Are you sure you are JUST married, surely there a better activities :phones:

2. Have you received permission from your wife to play on the net?

[Buffy]

2. Have you received permission from your wife to play on the net?:phones:

Tee hee! I hope he's prepared to be known as "your wife," Chac! :)

 

Stay, stay thy hands! thou art an Amazon and fightest with the sword of Deborah, :)

Buffy

[Turtle]

Congratulations. :phones: Flowers for the Blue Flower of Africa and her new bow...errr....beau. :) :)

[Boerseun]

Congratulations!

 

You've certainly got a much bigger set of cohones than me!

 

"Give me Liberty or give me Death",

- Henk

[Chacmool]

Thanks for all the good wishes and advice! We're both still floating in the clouds, but I'll print out the advice for when we come back to earth...

 

By the way, I've posted a wedding photo. :tongue:

[Qfwfq]

Gosh I've been absent myself, I hadn't even seen the subtitle...

 

Congratulations!!!!!

 

:hihi:

 

and that is a superb photo :)

[DougF]

:hihi: :)

Congrats Chacmool & Strangequark,

I have been married for 27 years and as Buffy says,

most importantly' date=' communication!

Intimacy is what makes a marriage, not a ceremony, not a piece of paper from the state [/quote']

This is so true, well I wish you a long and happy life together.

 

PS. very nice pictures you make a great couple.

;)

 

What: Freeztar is getting married in six months,

Well Congratulations!!!!! All around,

[Racoon]

I'm jealous.

Chacmool is Hawt!

 

Congratulations Chacky, and Best wishes. :hihi:

 

I regret not having traveled to South Africa and trying to woo you first.

[Tolouse]

Grats Chacmool, now the hard part

[DougF]

I have truly found that with my wife by my side all of my troubles are cut in half (or more), If I'm bothered by something I can talk to her and even thought I know what I have too do and she knows what I should do, We feel better after talking about it. when were are done talking we know where we stand and what has to be done, no surprises no oops! no I forgot to tell you, She knows what I plan to do (right or wrong she knows) and I know what she plans to do (of course never wrong!!!) but we know.

the best wish I could Wish is for you both is communication. :shrug:

 

 

(And NO I'm not henpecked)