Regarding The Death Sentence And Prison

[pamela]

touchy subject indeed, belovelife

I believe rape to be a sickness and should be treated as such.Although part of me would agree with your solution to the problem, i could not be in support of it. I would like for the perpetrator to get therapy and meds while he is in prison. We need to have a grasp on what are the triggers that drives such deviant behaviour, whether it is physiological or psychological. There are too many variables out there from being subjected to child abuse at an early age to mental incapacity. Rape hurts on every level for the victim and measures need to be taken to ensure that the person has the coping skills to get through it. There is a fine line between vengence and justice, and it is our responsibility to make sure that the system responds accordingly

[belovelife]

i know

but when there is less testosterome (from a mans perspective)

everything appears different

in a situation the you would feel strong

you instead feel weak

(i have a friend that just got a vacetomy)

so as before he would be intimidating

he says he feels intimidated by other men

i'm just saying its revesable

and the conditioning involved may help phycologically

and in know the conditioning that occurs that makes such things a reality

isn't good for the rapist

but if he understood the fear that the girl had

he may be less inclined to do it

 

otherwise

mabe just pills that stop the production of testosterome or a shot

the idea is that having that hormone makes a man horney

now punetas may get rid of it

but if you can't get laid

sometime it is seen as an option

(albiet a horrible option)

just from the mentality

 

so mabe a shot that prevents the buildup of testosterome for a year would be a better option

[Moontanman]

i know

but when there is less testosterome (from a mans perspective)

everything appears different

in a situation the you would feel strong

you instead feel weak

(i have a friend that just got a vacetomy)

so as before he would be intimidating

he says he feels intimidated by other men

i'm just saying its revesable

and the conditioning involved may help phycologically

and in know the conditioning that occurs that makes such things a reality

isn't good for the rapist

but if he understood the fear that the girl had

he may be less inclined to do it

 

otherwise

mabe just pills that stop the production of testosterome or a shot

the idea is that having that hormone makes a man horney

now punetas may get rid of it

but if you can't get laid

sometime it is seen as an option

(albiet a horrible option)

just from the mentality

 

so mabe a shot that prevents the buildup of testosterome for a year would be a better option

 

If you've been told a vasectomy has any effect what so ever on a man hormone levels or his level of aggression you have been lied to. A vasectomy has no effect what so ever on a mans testosterone levels. For that to happen you must have your testicles surgically removed or cut off. Fear is part of what a rapist likes about raping, understanding his victims fear will only turn him on more. No being able to get laid is not what rape is about, you should really do some research on this.

[belovelife]

not necisarily

those who want the fear are the extreme

the others are different

is not black and white

there is a whole spectrum

and have you had a conversation with a man before and after a vacectomy yourself

i have

there is a big difference

[Moontanman]

not necisarily

those who want the fear are the extreme

the others are different

is not black and white

there is a whole spectrum

and have you had a conversation with a man before and after a vacectomy yourself

i have

there is a big difference

 

Belovelife I do not need to talk to a man who has had a vasectomy, I've had one, it has no effect what so ever on my sex drive or my aggression.

[belovelife]

really

wow

my friend (a good guy)

says were before he felt strong in a social situation with othe rmen

he now feels intimidated

hmmm

well anyway

i was pointing to a shot similar to the birth control shot

that just stopped the production of testosterome

my train of thought

i felt the shot would be a better solution than a vacetomy

just so tha tparticular howmone was not produce

excuse me i'm at a party kinda buzzed (beer)

and mabe my ideas arn't coming across as i intend

[Moontanman]

really

wow

my friend (a good guy)

says were before he felt strong in a social situation with othe rmen

he now feels intimidated

hmmm

well anyway

i was pointing to a shot similar to the birth control shot

that just stopped the production of testosterome

my train of thought

i felt the shot would be a better solution than a vacetomy

just so tha tparticular howmone was not produce

excuse me i'm at a party kinda buzzed (beer)

and mabe my ideas arn't coming across as i intend

 

Well either he has physiological problems or he is bullshitting you, a vasectomy has no effect on testosterone production or even sperm production. It just prevents the sperm from being in the semen.

[belovelife]

ahh ok i concede the point