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Well, hey, Pyro - Had no idea my avatar had that effect on you! How's this one, any better?

Uh!! Err...! That is... Well... ummm...

 

i guess it will have to do. Sure hope you're not related to that fellow.

  • 3 years later...
Posted
Intellectually speaking, masturbation is not only okay, it's good for you. It is a self education in the early years, and an excellent stress reliever in the later years. It has no known bad side effects, when practiced 'reasonably' and not 'excessively'. It is not morally degrading, or mentally harmful.

 

Emotionally speaking, it is a whole nuther ball of wax. :earth: :lol:

 

By 'reasonably' I mean that it should not be performed in a manner that is inherently risky, like the so-called "choking game" that has killed several young teens in Houston recently. Nor with sharp instruments. Nor with any risk of fecal or biological contamination. Nor while standing up in a canoe -- you get the idea. By 'excessively', I mean to the point where (for men) erection has to be forced. Or where it interferes with daily life. That varies by individual. Personally, I would say that 4 or 6 times a day is not excessive for some, perhaps for others.

 

What do you mean by a fantasy being "appropriate"?

 

And, NO, that is NOT "chi"!!!!!! :D

 

actualy it does has a negative effect. and i hate to disappoint you . it can change the chemistry of your brain. it can reflect on your normal sexlife. when you are masturbating you can imaging what ever you like, you can take any fantasy for granted, and u know no limits. now we all have our temptations that we cant let loos. for example if some one has a very hot aunt. and wants to have sex with her. he can masturbate to that. but that will chage his all aproach to her later on.

Posted
when you are masturbating you can imaging what ever you like, you can take any fantasy for granted, and u know no limits.

Yes, and we can fantasize when having actual sex with another person, too. So what? Fantasy is really irrelevant to the discussion, especially since fantasy is not in any way dependent on orgasm, release, or the method by which it's obtained. Same with masturbation... you can do it without fantasizing, so really... what is your point?

 

 

now we all have our temptations that we cant let loos. for example if some one has a very hot aunt. and wants to have sex with her. he can masturbate to that. but that will chage his all aproach to her later on.

Again, masturbation not really relevant. The fantasy existed well before the masturbation began. In fact, the masturbation probably wouldn't be happening at all if you didn't already have the fantasy. You're putting the cart before the horse. While the feelings which come from masturbation may reinforce the desire you feel for your aunt, the desire is there WELL BEFORE you start masturbating, so your argument fails pretty robustly.

 

I hate to disappoint you... :hyper:

  • 3 weeks later...
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I see it in two different ways that conflict with each other. In one way, masturbation relives stress and calms down your sexual desire for a short time. In another way, the one I try to follow, I see masturbation as a waste of life. Turn your lust into gifts; channel that sexual energy into making an insightful post on this forum. :shrug:

Posted

I always knew there were folks around with JT's POV. I only met ONE before, and he was a 20-something wannabe Billy Graham hanging out on campus when I was in grad school. The 'sin' of masturbation was one of his favorite topics, as was the 'lusts of the flesh' in general. During the two semesters I saw him, he conducted daily 'Jesus Circles' out under the trees, often well into the evening. Then he was gone. Then I met two freshman girls he had knocked up.

 

JT may be a different case. Some men have such a low libido, that masturbation actually takes effort. :eek2: For such men, I can see how masturbation might look like a waste of their time.

 

However, if they then decide that THEY are normal (which they might do out of self-esteem issues), then of course they would conclude that masturbation is (or should be) a waste of time and life for everybody! And that everybody else are deluded.

 

This might even lead one to drop in on wonderful masturbation threads and try to evangelize all the wankers.

 

Masturbation is NOT a waste of Life.

 

Masturbation IS a beautiful expression of the experience of Life itself.

 

WANK THIS!!!

Posted

Okay, here is another question for you wankers out there.

 

I've been told by some guys, (and one woman a long time ago), that if they were having frequent partner-sex, be it with spouse or other, then their urge to wank went DOWN. The woman said her urge to knuckle hump disappeared altogether.

 

In the other hand, I've known a few folks who told me that when they had frequent partner-sex, their wank-factor shot UP through the roof!

The latter pretty much reflects MY experience, as well.

 

So which is it with you? Does partner-sex only increase your appetite for wanking? Or make it go away?

Posted
So if the fantasy about said aunt consists of cunnilingus... does that make one an aardvark ?

Just sayin'...

I suppose the real problem would be if the fantasy involved cunnilingus and an aardvark...

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